Saturday, November 28, 2015

Endurance

[en-doo r-uh ns, -dyoo r-] 
noun
1.
the fact or power of enduring or bearing pain, hardships, etc.
2.
the ability or strength to continue or last, especially despite fatigue,stress, or other adverse conditions; stamina:
He has amazing physical endurance.
3.
lasting quality; duration:
His friendships have little endurance.
4.
something endured, as a hardship; trial.
 
We are nearing 60 days of knowing, liking, and now loving each other.  We eclipsed one holiday in Thanksgiving and I feel quite fortunate for the timing of this holiday.   General circumstance and also the newness of our relationship played a role in us spending this holiday apart from each other.  We did communicate a lot throughout the day; it was nice to keep in touch with you at various intervals despite the busy happenings that come with the holiday.  Thank you for keeping me close in your thoughts, as you were close in mine.
 
I call this entry Endurance because although my feelings of love for you are fresh, and my heart still skips beats when I see you or hear the 'ding' of my phone in anticipation of a message from you, now is also the time I want to be mindful of the stresses of everyday life and their ability to erode away at even the most durable of things. I'm making a promise to myself to always remember you are a priority and to act accordingly.  I will be strong and endure through hardships such that our love stays strong and endures as well.  
 
I feel confident that I will get out what I put in and so I'm giving all of myself to you.  There's something freeing and joyous about letting go and trusting you. 
 
 

EEM & RMB bucket list

  1. Watch a Sunset
  2. Watch a Sunrise
  3. Go to a Red Wings/Bruins game - DONE
  4. Go Sailing
  5. Road trip to the Ocean and include a sunset on the beach
  6. Weekend Trip to Random Place for silly reason - DONE/Manchester
  7. Visit Petoskey Michigan - DONE
  8. Slow dance - DONE
  9. Dress up and go out for New Years Eve - Kiss at Midnight = DONE
  10. Make each other's favorite Dinner
  11. Lay in bed on a Sunday Morning and have Coffee together = DONE
  12. Travel to New Zealand
  13. Go Fly Fishing in New York for salmon
  14. Go skinny dipping
  15. Couples Massage = DONE (sort of)
  16. Make Glumpkie together
  17. Travel to tropical island/place enjoy hammock and umbrella drinks
  18. Go to an amusement park - DONE
  19. Camping
  20. Tubing
  21. Formula 1 racing
  22. Ride mechanical bulls
  23. Go to a dude ranch
  24. Grand Canyon
  25. Ice Hotel
  26. Broadway Musical
  27. Louvre
  28. Go to Greece & Mediterranean
  29. Drive down the west coast - wine tasting - vineyard tours
  30. Buy a Boat = DONE
  31. Lay in bed all day together